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#481
2 Frags +

I think the best way to approach this from your side is to make sure you send fewer, potentially longer messages rather than a bunch of small sentences, that makes me annoyed for sure with the notification sound blasting. Just be concise with your points and the rest kind of falls into place, from my own experience at least. Keep the mind set that some people on the other end don't know how to start conversations due to the same problem of thinking they are being annoying. As the post above states since you're conscious of your actions then you are already making head room. This is all easier said than done but you can do it for sure.
(Seems like we Canucks like to help each other)

I think the best way to approach this from your side is to make sure you send fewer, potentially longer messages rather than a bunch of small sentences, that makes me annoyed for sure with the notification sound blasting. Just be concise with your points and the rest kind of falls into place, from my own experience at least. Keep the mind set that some people on the other end don't know how to start conversations due to the same problem of thinking they are being annoying. As the post above states since you're conscious of your actions then you are already making head room. This is all easier said than done but you can do it for sure.
(Seems like we Canucks like to help each other)
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#482
6 Frags +

I was supposed to be at LAN right now with my friends.
I was doing just fine the past couple weeks of quarantine but the past 2 hours have hit really hard.
Every day is the same. Realizing how different the next couple days were supposed to be. But now it's all just nothing.

My life for the past year and a half or so has vastly improved. I'd say my depression that I've had for the past 6 years has almost faded away. Stable job, little stress at work, combining work with classes that are going well, more social (and hopefully likeable) person.
But right now I feel it coming back. The days right now feel exactly the same as back then.

I miss my friends. And I don't know when I'll be able to see them again

edit: Talking to friends through discord the past couple days has made me recover some of my sanity. I'll be okay

I was supposed to be at LAN right now with my friends.
I was doing just fine the past couple weeks of quarantine but the past 2 hours have hit really hard.
Every day is the same. Realizing how different the next couple days were supposed to be. But now it's all just nothing.

My life for the past year and a half or so has vastly improved. I'd say my depression that I've had for the past 6 years has almost faded away. Stable job, little stress at work, combining work with classes that are going well, more social (and hopefully likeable) person.
But right now I feel it coming back. The days right now feel exactly the same as back then.

I miss my friends. And I don't know when I'll be able to see them again

edit: Talking to friends through discord the past couple days has made me recover some of my sanity. I'll be okay
483
#483
4 Frags +

I have no awareness when it comes to how others feel lol. I guess I have a lot of friends irl cause of my idgaf attitude but I’ve noticed a lot of these friendships aren’t that deep (apart from like 3 ppl) because I don’t really open up to them and they don’t open up to me because they think idc or something. Every girl I’ve ever been a thing with claims I don’t like them back or care bout em but my question is how tf am I supposed to know if you’re upset or how you’re feeling if you don’t tell me? I am a deep person and have a quite unique perspective of things imo but I tend to only see things from that perspective and immediately label someone as retarded or too emotional if they happen to have a slightly different view. Doesn’t help that my friends are kind of like cult fans and I mean this in the best way possible, basically ‘yes’ people so I don’t really have opposing challenging perspectives to broader my understanding of things and life in general. I also hate really emotional people like some of my niggas be trippin bout shit that don’t fucin matter or about a bitch that’s ran threw anyway. I also kind of do things that aren’t really socially acceptable(gives me a idgaf vibe to others) and I’m self aware enough to know that people like me a lot more than I like them and it kinda makes me feel bad/fake cuz ion feel like a real friend to them. I’m also lazy af when it comes to replying on messages or Snapchat so the boys think I’m ignoring them like bruh I don’t have to talk to ur goofy ahh everyday

TLDR
Not aware of how others feel, don’t really care to be aware, slightly affects my relationships but I’m content with myself for now to not really make an effort to change

I have no awareness when it comes to how others feel lol. I guess I have a lot of friends irl cause of my idgaf attitude but I’ve noticed a lot of these friendships aren’t that deep (apart from like 3 ppl) because I don’t really open up to them and they don’t open up to me because they think idc or something. Every girl I’ve ever been a thing with claims I don’t like them back or care bout em but my question is how tf am I supposed to know if you’re upset or how you’re feeling if you don’t tell me? I am a deep person and have a quite unique perspective of things imo but I tend to only see things from that perspective and immediately label someone as retarded or too emotional if they happen to have a slightly different view. Doesn’t help that my friends are kind of like cult fans and I mean this in the best way possible, basically ‘yes’ people so I don’t really have opposing challenging perspectives to broader my understanding of things and life in general. I also hate really emotional people like some of my niggas be trippin bout shit that don’t fucin matter or about a bitch that’s ran threw anyway. I also kind of do things that aren’t really socially acceptable(gives me a idgaf vibe to others) and I’m self aware enough to know that people like me a lot more than I like them and it kinda makes me feel bad/fake cuz ion feel like a real friend to them. I’m also lazy af when it comes to replying on messages or Snapchat so the boys think I’m ignoring them like bruh I don’t have to talk to ur goofy ahh everyday

TLDR
Not aware of how others feel, don’t really care to be aware, slightly affects my relationships but I’m content with myself for now to not really make an effort to change
484
#484
10 Frags +

So my dad just returned from the vet, with my cat inside of a cardboard box. She had been sick for like a week, but we couldn't imagine that it was so bad.

Now I'm just sitting here sobbing and writing this instead of working, but I cba to do anything else right now. My last memory of her is just her crying and pissing inside of the pet carrier. I'm so sorry that it ended this way Miky, you were the best cat someone could ever had, sweet and cuddly. Rest easy babe, you were the greatest of all warriors.

https://i.imgur.com/MUNSLXH.jpg

So my dad just returned from the vet, with my cat inside of a cardboard box. She had been sick for like a week, but we couldn't imagine that it was so bad.

Now I'm just sitting here sobbing and writing this instead of working, but I cba to do anything else right now. My last memory of her is just her crying and pissing inside of the pet carrier. I'm so sorry that it ended this way Miky, you were the best cat someone could ever had, sweet and cuddly. Rest easy babe, you were the greatest of all warriors.

[img]https://i.imgur.com/MUNSLXH.jpg[/img]
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#485
-7 Frags +

i snipe in 6s dmixes

i snipe in 6s dmixes
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