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#31
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So what happens if I'm bi but i like girls more still

So what happens if I'm bi but i like girls more still
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parents want to be grandparents they'll say to your face its ok for you to be w/e but the sad truth is they'll cry in their bed because their offspring failed to make babies themselves.

parents want to be grandparents they'll say to your face its ok for you to be w/e but the sad truth is they'll cry in their bed because their offspring failed to make babies themselves.
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VisCyanicmy family thinks my sister is a lesbian and seeing how its destroying my mum makes me glad i never told her i was gay :/Your sister is almost certainly not lesbian if you are gay. There is a tendency that every younger brother has a ~1% higher chance of being gay, so if your sister is younger than you, she is most probably also attracted to men.

she is younger than me but i'm not sure i understand what you're describing, could you elaborate?

[quote=Vis][quote=Cyanic]my family thinks my sister is a lesbian and seeing how its destroying my mum makes me glad i never told her i was gay :/[/quote]
Your sister is almost certainly not lesbian if you are gay. There is a tendency that every younger brother has a ~1% higher chance of being gay, so if your sister is younger than you, she is most probably also attracted to men.[/quote]

she is younger than me but i'm not sure i understand what you're describing, could you elaborate?
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CyanicVisCyanicmy family thinks my sister is a lesbian and seeing how its destroying my mum makes me glad i never told her i was gay :/Your sister is almost certainly not lesbian if you are gay. There is a tendency that every younger brother has a ~1% higher chance of being gay, so if your sister is younger than you, she is most probably also attracted to men.
she is younger than me but i'm not sure i understand what you're describing, could you elaborate?

I don't want to give any misleading information, I cannot backup my theory with research because I was unable to find any. It was based on a discovery made last year (I believe) that 'proved' that among brothers in a family, every younger one has a greater chance of being born homosexual. I can point you to this article that explains in details the explanation behind that, TL;DR The mother creates antibodies against a protein in the Y chromosome related to male brain development that got in her bloodstream from her first pregnancy, and so her immune system fights that protein in further pregnancies.

Obviously, women don't have that Y chromosome, but my 'theory' is, if the oldest child (and, in this case, a boy) is attracted to men, then it probably has something to do with the X chromosome, because the mother did not have time to create antibodies for that protein in the Y chr. and attack it before she gave birth. The girl has only X chromosomes, so the chance of her being attracted to men is even higher.

I can see a lot of flaws in that theory while I'm solely typing it out, so I'm going to ask here and there for any research that could prove anything. Lesbians have gone through much less 'examination' than gays, their sexual orientation is believed to be influenced by the environment in which they were brought up, too. Genetics is quite a complex field, so I guess there will never be a definite answer as to 'why' someone is so and so.

[quote=Cyanic][quote=Vis][quote=Cyanic]my family thinks my sister is a lesbian and seeing how its destroying my mum makes me glad i never told her i was gay :/[/quote]
Your sister is almost certainly not lesbian if you are gay. There is a tendency that every younger brother has a ~1% higher chance of being gay, so if your sister is younger than you, she is most probably also attracted to men.[/quote]

she is younger than me but i'm not sure i understand what you're describing, could you elaborate?[/quote]
I don't want to give any misleading information, I cannot backup my theory with research because I was unable to find any. It was based on a discovery made last year (I believe) that 'proved' that among brothers in a family, every younger one has a greater chance of being born homosexual. I can point you to [url=https://edition.cnn.com/2017/12/11/health/men-older-brothers-gay-study/index.html]this article[/url] that explains in details the explanation behind that, TL;DR The mother creates antibodies against a protein in the Y chromosome related to male brain development that got in her bloodstream from her first pregnancy, and so her immune system fights that protein in further pregnancies.

Obviously, women don't have that Y chromosome, but my 'theory' is, if the oldest child (and, in this case, a boy) is attracted to men, then it probably has something to do with the X chromosome, because the mother did not have time to create antibodies for that protein in the Y chr. and attack it before she gave birth. The girl has only X chromosomes, so the chance of her being attracted to men is even higher.

I can see a lot of flaws in that theory while I'm solely typing it out, so I'm going to ask here and there for any research that could prove anything. Lesbians have gone through much less 'examination' than gays, their sexual orientation is believed to be influenced by the environment in which they were brought up, too. Genetics is quite a complex field, so I guess there will never be a definite answer as to 'why' someone is so and so.
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Vis

interesting read, thanks for the info

[quote=Vis][/quote]

interesting read, thanks for the info
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VisCyanicmy family thinks my sister is a lesbian and seeing how its destroying my mum makes me glad i never told her i was gay :/Your sister is almost certainly not lesbian if you are gay. There is a tendency that every younger brother has a ~1% higher chance of being gay, so if your sister is younger than you, she is most probably also attracted to men.

Might be the dumbest thing i've read in a while, my father got 2 brothers and one sister and they're all gay, there are things science can't totally explain and I think sexuality is one

[quote=Vis][quote=Cyanic]my family thinks my sister is a lesbian and seeing how its destroying my mum makes me glad i never told her i was gay :/[/quote]
Your sister is almost certainly not lesbian if you are gay. There is a tendency that every younger brother has a ~1% higher chance of being gay, so if your sister is younger than you, she is most probably also attracted to men.[/quote]
Might be the dumbest thing i've read in a while, my father got 2 brothers and one sister and they're all gay, there are things science can't totally explain and I think sexuality is one
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#37
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I'm not gay I just suck dick.

I'm not gay I just suck dick.
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#38
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Coming out to relatives/friends when you think/know they'll react negatively can be hard and the decision is up to you. There are no real rights or wrongs in such a scenario.

Just never let the decision to not come out affect who you are and who you love. Your happiness will always be more important than that of those around you.
If they do not accept you they're not worth your time. Surround yourself with people who accept you, disregard toxic elements in your life

Coming out to relatives/friends when you think/know they'll react negatively can be hard and the decision is up to you. There are no real rights or wrongs in such a scenario.

Just never let the decision to not come out affect who you are and who you love. Your happiness will always be more important than that of those around you.
If they do not accept you they're not worth your time. Surround yourself with people who accept you, disregard toxic elements in your life
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#39
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I worry about the community's gay youth because they are at a higher risk of being a pyro main

I worry about the community's gay youth because they are at a higher risk of being a pyro main
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3006VisCyanicmy family thinks my sister is a lesbian and seeing how its destroying my mum makes me glad i never told her i was gay :/Your sister is almost certainly not lesbian if you are gay. There is a tendency that every younger brother has a ~1% higher chance of being gay, so if your sister is younger than you, she is most probably also attracted to men.Might be the dumbest thing i've read in a while, my father got 2 brothers and one sister and they're all gay, there are things science can't totally explain and I think sexuality is one

I was talking about chances. I already stated that it's just a theory of mine, there is little to no research made on lesbians in the first place. The part about the younger male siblings is correct, though.

[quote=3006][quote=Vis][quote=Cyanic]my family thinks my sister is a lesbian and seeing how its destroying my mum makes me glad i never told her i was gay :/[/quote]
Your sister is almost certainly not lesbian if you are gay. There is a tendency that every younger brother has a ~1% higher chance of being gay, so if your sister is younger than you, she is most probably also attracted to men.[/quote]
Might be the dumbest thing i've read in a while, my father got 2 brothers and one sister and they're all gay, there are things science can't totally explain and I think sexuality is one[/quote]
I was talking about chances. I already stated that it's just a theory of mine, there is little to no research made on lesbians in the first place. The part about the younger male siblings is correct, though.
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Vis3006VisCyanicmy family thinks my sister is a lesbian and seeing how its destroying my mum makes me glad i never told her i was gay :/Your sister is almost certainly not lesbian if you are gay. There is a tendency that every younger brother has a ~1% higher chance of being gay, so if your sister is younger than you, she is most probably also attracted to men.Might be the dumbest thing i've read in a while, my father got 2 brothers and one sister and they're all gay, there are things science can't totally explain and I think sexuality is oneI was talking about chances. I already stated that it's just a theory of mine, there is little to no research made on lesbians in the first place. The part about the younger male siblings is correct, though.

stop

[quote=Vis][quote=3006][quote=Vis][quote=Cyanic]my family thinks my sister is a lesbian and seeing how its destroying my mum makes me glad i never told her i was gay :/[/quote]
Your sister is almost certainly not lesbian if you are gay. There is a tendency that every younger brother has a ~1% higher chance of being gay, so if your sister is younger than you, she is most probably also attracted to men.[/quote]
Might be the dumbest thing i've read in a while, my father got 2 brothers and one sister and they're all gay, there are things science can't totally explain and I think sexuality is one[/quote]
I was talking about chances. I already stated that it's just a theory of mine, there is little to no research made on lesbians in the first place. The part about the younger male siblings is correct, though.[/quote]
stop
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#42
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lf gf OR bf

lf gf OR bf
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#43
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Stop what?

Stop what?
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#44
newbie.tf
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being gay is okay

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and also awesome
being gay is okay

[spoiler]and also awesome[/spoiler]
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ThespikedballofdoomSo what happens if I'm bi but i like girls more still

i know a lot of bi people that have preferences over one gender or anothjer

[quote=Thespikedballofdoom]So what happens if I'm bi but i like girls more still[/quote]

i know a lot of bi people that have preferences over one gender or anothjer
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Cyanicmy family thinks my sister is a lesbian and seeing how its destroying my mum makes me glad i never told her i was gay :/

Any chance they already know?

[quote=Cyanic]my family thinks my sister is a lesbian and seeing how its destroying my mum makes me glad i never told her i was gay :/[/quote]

Any chance they already know?
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CovooI worry about the community's gay youth because they are at a higher risk of being a pyro main

oh.

[quote=Covoo]I worry about the community's gay youth because they are at a higher risk of being a pyro main[/quote]
oh.
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#48
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lf egf [boy]

lf egf [boy]
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#49
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๑ﭥ We truly are in this wonderful age now, as earth is in the process of transitioning to pure love consciousness. Follow and listen to your heart, live in the moment, love yourself and all sentient life, choose joy my friends. Radiate love everywhere you go, live to your divine limitless potential. Trauma is an illusion, love is all. All the best to everyone ๑ﭥ

๑ﭥ We truly are in this wonderful age now, as earth is in the process of transitioning to pure love consciousness. Follow and listen to your heart, live in the moment, love yourself and all sentient life, choose joy my friends. Radiate love everywhere you go, live to your divine limitless potential. Trauma is an illusion, love is all. All the best to everyone ๑ﭥ
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VisStop what?

being stupid

[quote=Vis]Stop what?[/quote]

being stupid
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#51
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is it gay if you suck a dick, but don't like it, im asking for a fwiend...

is it gay if you suck a dick, but don't like it, im asking for a fwiend...
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#52
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stfu weeb

stfu weeb
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#53
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i like boys but ima get mulched by my parents if i say anything, prolly just gunna stay closeted until college

i like boys but ima get mulched by my parents if i say anything, prolly just gunna stay closeted until college
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#54
Stream Highlights
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Waiting till I'm 18 to be FLAGRANTLY homosexual in public

Waiting till I'm 18 to be [b]FLAGRANTLY[/b] homosexual in public
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#55
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are traps gay?

(serious answers only)

are traps gay?

(serious answers only)
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#56
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jetzzzzzare traps gay?

(serious answers only)

Traps aren’t gay. At least, liking them isn’t inherently gay, though current heteronormativity would suggest that most traps are they themselves gay. Now that I think about it, given the current state of gender politics, we should probably as a culture acknowledge that the term “trap” is something of a blanket term that could apply to a transwoman or a man in drag. I guess that what I’m trying to say is that neither liking traps nor traps themselves are necessarily gay, and even if it was, who are we to judge the way others express love for one another?
Anyway, bounced on my girls dick to this.

[quote=jetzzzzz]are traps gay?

(serious answers only)[/quote] Traps aren’t gay. At least, liking them isn’t inherently gay, though current heteronormativity would suggest that most traps are they themselves gay. Now that I think about it, given the current state of gender politics, we should probably as a culture acknowledge that the term “trap” is something of a blanket term that could apply to a transwoman or a man in drag. I guess that what I’m trying to say is that neither liking traps nor traps themselves are necessarily gay, and even if it was, who are we to judge the way others express love for one another?
Anyway, bounced on my girls dick to this.
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TailorTFjetzzzzzare traps gay?

(serious answers only)
Traps aren’t gay. At least, liking them isn’t inherently gay, .

looks like im straight boys

[quote=TailorTF][quote=jetzzzzz]are traps gay?

(serious answers only)[/quote] Traps aren’t gay. At least, liking them isn’t inherently gay, .[/quote]

looks like im straight boys
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ThespikedballofdoomSo what happens if I'm bi but i like girls more still
[quote=Thespikedballofdoom]So what happens if I'm bi but i like girls more still[/quote]
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#59
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ThespikedballofdoomSo what happens if I'm bi but i like girls more still

You're probably still bi. You just have a personal preference for girls compared to guys, of whom you're also attracted to but not as much as women, whether a current or longstanding preference.

The idea that bisexuality is some 50/50 thing is a misconception and isn't really true; you can be bi and lean more towards one side or the other, as well as have it shift around based on who you like, what you're feeling into at the time in terms of attraction, etc.

EDIT: You can by all means be bisexual 50/50 but it's not the only defining ratio for bisexuality.

[quote=Thespikedballofdoom]So what happens if I'm bi but i like girls more still[/quote]
You're probably still bi. You just have a personal preference for girls compared to guys, of whom you're also attracted to but not as much as women, whether a current or longstanding preference.

The idea that bisexuality is some 50/50 thing is a misconception and isn't really true; you can be bi and lean more towards one side or the other, as well as have it shift around based on who you like, what you're feeling into at the time in terms of attraction, etc.

[b]EDIT:[/b] You can by all means be bisexual 50/50 but it's not the only defining ratio for bisexuality.
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VeccVisStop what?
being stupid

Stupid about what? I like how both of you don't actually know what is wrong with my arguments, just looking for ways to create drama.

[quote=Vecc][quote=Vis]Stop what?[/quote]

being stupid[/quote]
Stupid about what? I like how both of you don't actually know what is wrong with my arguments, just looking for ways to create drama.
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