If you're a minor and you are reading this, never take nudes and send them to someone! There are court cases where minors who made nudes got convicted for creating child porn, you encourage the worst kind of people by giving in to their requests and it will be used against you maliciously at some point (ask a few girls in the community) https://criminal.findlaw.com/criminal-charges/child-pornography-and-selfies--what-you-need-to-know.html
Though their laws were created to protect minors from exploitation caused by others, states are prosecuting minors under child pornography statutes for sending nude or otherwise lurid self-portraits, even when the minors sent the selfies without coercion. The common quirk in the laws is that there is no exception for taking or distributing sexually explicit pictures of oneself. Thus, a high school student sending a racy selfie to a boyfriend or girlfriend could subject both themselves and the receiver to prosecution for child pornography. If the picture makes its way around other social circles through online or direct sharing, anyone who received or distributed the photo could also find themselves open to charges.
A couple of years ago i remember some 15-16 y old girl player had their nudes leaked and there was drama about it in etf2l and a lot of people were very keen on getting the pics "for the lulz of the drama" and other excuses. Also you dont expect that this problem will be fixed with a thread like this. It's like politicians and soft corruption, these self regulatory tendencies of people in control or in a community will tend to cover up anything for "pillars in the community", or as they say "us knows us". But on the other hand, you shouldnt be caught doing a witch hunt in indignation and attack 19 year olds hitting on 16-17 year olds esp if both of them are being flirty. Whats even worse discussing this and any moderation of them lead to only more fractures in this community while probably not bringing justice anyways.