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Need help for Belle and Sebastian Concert
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I've been seeing these death grips threads and its making me sad cause the new Belle and Sebastian Album is coming. It seems to have been leaked and is getting good reviews and their new single 'Nobody's Empire' is the best song by them in years. I'm getting totally hyped for this and I am going to see them in Glasgow and I am wondering if there are any other Belle and Sebastian fans here who wanna add me to talk about them. I am also thinking of asking a girl to go with me to the concert so any advice on how to approach her on it would be nice since she has no idea who they are she might not even like them. My personal favorite songs by them are Photo Jenny and Me and the Major. I was thinking I should let her hear some of their best accessible pop stuff like Another Sunny Day (or anything of The Life Pursuit or Dear Catastrophe Waitress)

What I am asking is how I ask this girl to come with Glasgow with me to go to a concert with an awesome band when she probably has never heard of them. Its quite a trip (2 hours or so) but she is a year older than me and I need to take the lead and I don't know if I can do this. If she has fun though this is my chance to get laid. Help.

EDIT: Also im loving this new Belle and Sebastian album

I've been seeing these death grips threads and its making me sad cause the new Belle and Sebastian [url=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Girls_in_Peacetime_Want_to_Dance]Album[/url] is coming. It seems to have been leaked and is getting good reviews and their new single [url=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rgb8am3NQU0]'Nobody's Empire'[/url] is the best song by them in years. I'm getting totally hyped for this and I am going to see them in Glasgow and I am wondering if there are any other Belle and Sebastian fans here who wanna add me to talk about them. I am also thinking of asking a girl to go with me to the concert so any advice on how to approach her on it would be nice since she has no idea who they are she might not even like them. My personal favorite songs by them are [url=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rY9gNQM5fS4]Photo Jenny[/url] and [url=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h5kCDtd5t68]Me and the Major[/url]. I was thinking I should let her hear some of their best accessible pop stuff like [url=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rx08E0b0Rs0]Another Sunny Day[/url] (or anything of The Life Pursuit or [url=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z7wSBqOIJBo]Dear Catastrophe Waitress[/url])

What I am asking is how I ask this girl to come with Glasgow with me to go to a concert with an awesome band when she probably has never heard of them. Its quite a trip (2 hours or so) but she is a year older than me and I need to take the lead and I don't know if I can do this. If she has fun though this is my chance to get laid. Help.

EDIT: Also im loving this new Belle and Sebastian album
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i cant give advice but i hope it works out 4 u

i cant give advice but i hope it works out 4 u
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I know her quite well (we both go to this collage thing) but I have no idea how I ask a girl to come to Glasgow with me alone.

I know her quite well (we both go to this collage thing) but I have no idea how I ask a girl to come to Glasgow with me alone.
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how many threads WILL IT TAKE FOR THIS MAN TO BE BANNED

how many threads WILL IT TAKE FOR THIS MAN TO BE BANNED
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Just ask her lol.

Just ask her lol.
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Don't ask don't get. Simple as. She's not gonna ask you out of the blue to take her to Glasgow alone is she.

Don't ask don't get. Simple as. She's not gonna ask you out of the blue to take her to Glasgow alone is she.
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-Mike-Just ask her lol.

But how do I ask her without sounding like I want to kidnap her

[quote=-Mike-]Just ask her lol.[/quote]

But how do I ask her without sounding like I want to kidnap her
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Sheepylol-Mike-Just ask her lol.
But how do I ask her without sounding like I want to kidnap her

You could have just asked "how do i pick up chicks"

[quote=Sheepylol][quote=-Mike-]Just ask her lol.[/quote]

But how do I ask her without sounding like I want to kidnap her[/quote]


You could have just asked "how do i pick up chicks"
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but how can I ask a girl on a date to a place thats 3 hours away without sounding creepy

but how can I ask a girl on a date to a place thats 3 hours away without sounding creepy
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http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-w9ugudZa5kA/UV6U4PsCJlI/AAAAAAAApsk/I5wi0WPoFlw/s640/Did+I+listen+to+pop+music+because+I+was+miserable.jpg

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don't be a creep about it. don't assume she doesn't know who the band is. "i have an extra ticket if you'd like to go with me"
[img]http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-w9ugudZa5kA/UV6U4PsCJlI/AAAAAAAApsk/I5wi0WPoFlw/s640/Did+I+listen+to+pop+music+because+I+was+miserable.jpg[/img]

[spoiler]don't be a creep about it. don't assume she doesn't know who the band is. "i have an extra ticket if you'd like to go with me"[/spoiler]
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#11
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there are an infinite number of online resources such as youtube and google for questions like these (aka asking a girl out)

and you chose a competitive team fortress 2 video game forum?

there are an infinite number of online resources such as youtube and google for questions like these (aka asking a girl out)

and you chose a competitive team fortress 2 video game forum?
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cp_granary_pro
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whats creepy is if she saw this thread

whats creepy is if she saw this thread
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but if she says no then how am I gonna find someone to go with? I wanna go with a girl and I dont know anyone else I would want to go with who I know irl. I can try asking on lastfm but that probably wont work.

but if she says no then how am I gonna find someone to go with? I wanna go with a girl and I dont know anyone else I would want to go with who I know irl. I can try asking on lastfm but that probably wont work.
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phAZEthere are an infinite number of online resources such as youtube and google for questions like these (aka asking a girl out)

and you chose a competitive team fortress 2 video game forum?

cause I have friends here who can message me on steam.

[quote=phAZE]there are an infinite number of online resources such as youtube and google for questions like these (aka asking a girl out)

and you chose a competitive team fortress 2 video game forum?[/quote]

cause I have friends here who can message me on steam.
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Sheepylolbut if she says no then how am I gonna find someone to go with? I wanna go with a girl and I dont know anyone else I would want to go with who I know irl. I can try asking on lastfm but that probably wont work.The Dalai Llama, himself"...to have greater self-awareness or understanding means to have a better grasp of reality. Now, the opposite of reality is to project onto yourself qualities that are not there, ascribe to yourself characteristics in contrast to what is actually the case. For example, when you have a distorted view of yourself, such as through excessive pride or arrogance, because of these states of mind, you have an exaggerated sense of your qualities and personal abilities. Your view of your own abilities goes far beyond your actual abilities. On the other hand, when you have low self-esteem, then you underestimate your actual qualities and abilities. You belittle yourself, you put yourself down. This leads to a complete loss of faith in yourself. So excess--both in terms of exaggeration and devaluation--are equally destructive. It is by addressing these obstacles and by constantly examining your personal character, qualities, and abilities, that you can learn to have greater self-understanding. This is the way to become more self-aware."

just ask. good luck. report back.

[quote=Sheepylol]but if she says no then how am I gonna find someone to go with? I wanna go with a girl and I dont know anyone else I would want to go with who I know irl. I can try asking on lastfm but that probably wont work.[/quote]

[quote=The Dalai Llama, himself]"...to have greater self-awareness or understanding means to have a better grasp of reality. Now, the opposite of reality is to project onto yourself qualities that are not there, ascribe to yourself characteristics in contrast to what is actually the case. For example, when you have a distorted view of yourself, such as through excessive pride or arrogance, because of these states of mind, you have an exaggerated sense of your qualities and personal abilities. Your view of your own abilities goes far beyond your actual abilities. [b]On the other hand, when you have low self-esteem, then you underestimate your actual qualities and abilities. You belittle yourself, you put yourself down. This leads to a complete loss of faith in yourself. So excess--both in terms of exaggeration and devaluation--are equally destructive.[/b] It is by addressing these obstacles and by constantly examining your personal character, qualities, and abilities, that you can learn to have greater self-understanding. This is the way to become more self-aware."[/quote]

just ask. good luck. report back.
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"Hey theres a show in Glasgow, wanna go?"

Or even turn it into a shitty pun

"Wanna glasGO to this concert with me"

"Hey theres a show in Glasgow, wanna go?"

Or even turn it into a shitty pun

"Wanna glasGO to this concert with me"
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I jammed on the guitar with her once and she enjoyed it but it felt like she was doing it to be nice. She is so fucking attractive though you would all be freaking out like me if you got the chance to go see your favorite band with a girl of your dreams,

I jammed on the guitar with her once and she enjoyed it but it felt like she was doing it to be nice. She is so fucking attractive though you would all be freaking out like me if you got the chance to go see your favorite band with a girl of your dreams,
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on a side note: new Belle & Sebastian is super good, new video is dumb

on a side note: new Belle & Sebastian is super good, new video is dumb
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SheepylolIf she has fun though this is my chance to get laid.

stop that

[quote=Sheepylol]If she has fun though this is my chance to get laid.[/quote]
stop that
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SocialistFishon a side note: new Belle & Sebastian is super good, new video is dumb

The album has leaked. I am listening to it now and enjoying it so far. I just want to go with this girl to see them live (the dum dum girls are opening so they might play this since I think she likes the smiths. I just wanna hold her hand while listening to them.

[quote=SocialistFish]on a side note: new Belle & Sebastian is super good, new video is dumb[/quote]

The album has leaked. I am listening to it now and enjoying it so far. I just want to go with this girl to see them live (the dum dum girls are opening so they might play [url=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OrgKtFVKTmI]this[/url] since I think she likes the smiths. I just wanna hold her hand while listening to them.
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pascalSheepylolIf she has fun though this is my chance to get laid.stop that

I honestly just want a real relationship with someone who is sweet and cute. I am not actually doing this for sex (although it is nice).

[quote=pascal][quote=Sheepylol]If she has fun though this is my chance to get laid.[/quote]
stop that[/quote]

I honestly just want a real relationship with someone who is sweet and cute. I am not actually doing this for sex (although it is nice).
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SheepylolI jammed on the guitar with her once and she enjoyed it but it felt like she was doing it to be nice. She is so fucking attractive though you would all be freaking out like me if you got the chance to go see your favorite band with a girl of your dreams,

Sounds like you only like her cuz shes hot. I get the sexual attraction and the want to have sex, it's fine for people to feel that way and there's nothing inherently wrong in that. But calling her the "girl of your dreams" is a little bit of a jump, isnt it?

[quote=Sheepylol]I jammed on the guitar with her once and she enjoyed it but it felt like she was doing it to be nice. She is so fucking attractive though you would all be freaking out like me if you got the chance to go see your favorite band with a girl of your dreams,[/quote]
Sounds like you only like her cuz shes hot. I get the sexual attraction and the want to have sex, it's fine for people to feel that way and there's nothing inherently wrong in that. But calling her the "girl of your dreams" is a little bit of a jump, isnt it?
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Its not the sex. I want to see my favorite band play with a girl who I have a huge crush on. im just scared she will think im a creep and say no.

Its not the sex. I want to see my favorite band play with a girl who I have a huge crush on. im just scared she will think im a creep and say no.
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Okay so worst case scenario is she says no.

Is she gonna stab you as well? Just do it stop being a butt.

Okay so worst case scenario is she says no.

Is she gonna stab you as well? Just do it stop being a butt.
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SheoOkay so worst case scenario is she says no.

Is she gonna stab you as well? Just do it stop being a butt.

I don't wanna go with anyone else though. I just want to make sure I do everything right.

[quote=Sheo]Okay so worst case scenario is she says no.

Is she gonna stab you as well? Just do it stop being a butt.[/quote]

I don't wanna go with anyone else though. I just want to make sure I do everything right.
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I'm going to put all your threads into the Dumpster from now on

I'm going to put all your threads into the Dumpster from now on
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manaI'm going to put all your threads into the Dumpster from now on

sorry I should have put it in off topic. But i just made this thread to see if people could help me get with this girl. She is beautiful and nice and everyone knows I am a weird kid with a lisp that annoys people and I just want to make sure I do everything right I get her on the date. I posted it here so my friends would see it and help me about this.

[quote=mana]I'm going to put all your threads into the Dumpster from now on[/quote]

sorry I should have put it in off topic. But i just made this thread to see if people could help me get with this girl. She is beautiful and nice and everyone knows I am a weird kid with a lisp that annoys people and I just want to make sure I do everything right I get her on the date. I posted it here so my friends would see it and help me about this.
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anyway im going to ask her out to the movies (actually im gonna jam with her, she sings and I can play piano) with me before to see if she is interested (I think she does like me). Also thanks to everyone on my fl list who has given me advice.

anyway im going to ask her out to the movies (actually im gonna jam with her, she sings and I can play piano) with me before to see if she is interested (I think she does like me). Also thanks to everyone on my fl list who has given me advice.
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SheepylolI jammed on the guitar with her once and she enjoyed it but it felt like she was doing it to be nice. She is so fucking attractive though you would all be freaking out like me if you got the chance to go see your favorite band with a girl of your dreams,

Don't think like that, she was jamming with you cos you're a baller and sexy as hell! Now shut up posting here and go get her you beast you!

[quote=Sheepylol]I jammed on the guitar with her once and she enjoyed it but it felt like she was doing it to be nice. She is so fucking attractive though you would all be freaking out like me if you got the chance to go see your favorite band with a girl of your dreams,[/quote]

Don't think like that, she was jamming with you cos you're a baller and sexy as hell! Now shut up posting here and go get her you beast you!
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SheepylolShe is so fucking attractive though you would all be freaking out like me if you got the chance to go see your favorite band with a girl of your dreams,

it'd be negated by the fact you'd be going to glasgow though

[quote=Sheepylol]She is so fucking attractive though you would all be freaking out like me if you got the chance to go see your favorite band with a girl of your dreams,[/quote]

it'd be negated by the fact you'd be going to glasgow though
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