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Dealing with Anxiety/Depression
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It's another one of these threads, yeah.

I recently got diagnosed with GAD (Generalised Anxiety Disorder) and SAD (Social Anxiety Disorder). Recently I've realised it's gotten a LOT worse, getting to the point where I can't trust nor talk to anyone. Constantly, I feel demotivated and don't want to do anything at all. I've dealt with depression in the past, but it *has* come back to an extent and I'm really struggling about what to do; I can't get up and go anywhere because I'm just scared of everything.

/patheticthread

It's another one of these threads, yeah.

I recently got diagnosed with GAD (Generalised Anxiety Disorder) and SAD (Social Anxiety Disorder). Recently I've realised it's gotten a LOT worse, getting to the point where I can't trust nor talk to anyone. Constantly, I feel demotivated and don't want to do anything at all. I've dealt with depression in the past, but it *has* come back to an extent and I'm really struggling about what to do; I can't get up and go anywhere because I'm just scared of everything.

/patheticthread
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you can talk to me. i like to talk about philosophy and shit. add me.

you can talk to me. i like to talk about philosophy and shit. add me.
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Seek a therapist or even a psychiatrist if the problem is that severe. You should never sit on a problem like this, and to be perfectly honest posting to it about us won't do you any good unless someone on here actually is certified with doctorate and all to be a psychologist (or psychiatrist if your anxiety is that severe). Reaching out to someone who isn't talking to you over TCP/IP is the quickest way to solve anxiety issues.

Seek a therapist or even a psychiatrist if the problem is that severe. You should never sit on a problem like this, and to be perfectly honest posting to it about us won't do you any good unless someone on here actually is certified with doctorate and all to be a psychologist (or psychiatrist if your anxiety is that severe). Reaching out to someone who isn't talking to you over TCP/IP is the quickest way to solve anxiety issues.
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gr8stalinposting to it about us won't do you any good unless someone on here actually is certified with doctorate and all to be a psychologist (or psychiatrist if your anxiety is that severe).

I'll have you know I passed my AP psychology class with a high C.

[quote=gr8stalin]posting to it about us won't do you any good unless someone on here actually is certified with doctorate and all to be a psychologist (or psychiatrist if your anxiety is that severe). [/quote]
I'll have you know I passed my AP psychology class with a high C.
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i'm going to assume with your aforementioned diagnoses that you have already seen a psychiatrist or another licensed mental health professional. did they recommend a course of action for you? i suspect it would include some individual therapy, which is crucial to get through these troubled times you're currently having.

working at a mental health/substance abuse treatment facility, i urge you to stay away from prescription medication if at all possible (and 9 times out of 10, it is very possible). there are a plethora of other options you can explore before getting on medication: natural supplements, changing your diet, exercising, journaling, etc.

i've seen clients from 15-70+ years old who are dependent on anti-anxiety/anti-depression medication who exhibit no real effort to make actual therapeutic progress, and instead stay wrapped up in this blanket of pharmaceuticals that tend to just numb and hollow you out.

i'm assuming you're fairly young, which is the best time to start tackling these issues. sometimes, these things go undiagnosed/untreated and end up resulting in addictions or other unhealthy habits to cope with uncomfortable feelings (like anxiety).

i applaud your self-awareness and respect your effort to reach out for help on these forums. however, just as the above poster stated, there is only so much that can be done over a computer screen.

i'm going to assume with your aforementioned diagnoses that you have already seen a psychiatrist or another licensed mental health professional. did they recommend a course of action for you? i suspect it would include some individual therapy, which is crucial to get through these troubled times you're currently having.

working at a mental health/substance abuse treatment facility, i urge you to stay away from prescription medication if at all possible (and 9 times out of 10, it is very possible). there are a plethora of other options you can explore before getting on medication: natural supplements, changing your diet, exercising, journaling, etc.

i've seen clients from 15-70+ years old who are dependent on anti-anxiety/anti-depression medication who exhibit no real effort to make actual therapeutic progress, and instead stay wrapped up in this blanket of pharmaceuticals that tend to just numb and hollow you out.

i'm assuming you're fairly young, which is the best time to start tackling these issues. sometimes, these things go undiagnosed/untreated and end up resulting in addictions or other unhealthy habits to cope with uncomfortable feelings (like anxiety).

i applaud your self-awareness and respect your effort to reach out for help on these forums. however, just as the above poster stated, there is only so much that can be done over a computer screen.
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i had social anxiety but i got over it because i don't really care what people say or think about me

edited cause nerds were getting mad about me talking about my experience with social anxiety and how i got over it and no, i was not trying to give advice

i had social anxiety but i got over it because i don't really care what people say or think about me


edited cause nerds were getting mad about me talking about my experience with social anxiety and how i got over it and no, i was not trying to give advice
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phobiai had social anxiety but i got over it because i don't really care what people say or think about me

that's not how it works

[quote=phobia]i had social anxiety but i got over it because i don't really care what people say or think about me[/quote]

that's not how it works
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there is no easy answer or fix to this

it takes a long time, a lot of hard work and perseverance, most likely at least one professional and some therapy

the worst thing you can do is sit here and beat yourself up over it

go talk to the people you care about, tell them how you feel and let them know you need their support

good luck

there is no easy answer or fix to this

it takes a long time, a lot of hard work and perseverance, most likely at least one professional and some therapy

the worst thing you can do is sit here and beat yourself up over it

go talk to the people you care about, tell them how you feel and let them know you need their support

good luck
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phobiathe best thing to do is just not give a fuck about anything, i had social anxiety but i got over it because i don't really care what people say or think about me

"ya i had eating anxiety but now i just dont eat it works great"

can we leave the middle school out of this thread please, thanks

[quote=phobia]the best thing to do is just not give a fuck about anything, i had social anxiety but i got over it because i don't really care what people say or think about me[/quote]

"ya i had eating anxiety but now i just dont eat it works great"

can we leave the middle school out of this thread please, thanks
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I thought comp tf2 was hard, then I had to deal with depression and anxiety

I thought comp tf2 was hard, then I had to deal with depression and anxiety
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VZ2HcRl4wSk

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VZ2HcRl4wSk
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joddi'm going to assume with your aforementioned diagnoses that you have already seen a psychiatrist or another licensed mental health professional. did they recommend a course of action for you? i suspect it would include some individual therapy, which is crucial to get through these troubled times you're currently having.

working at a mental health/substance abuse treatment facility, i urge you to stay away from prescription medication if at all possible (and 9 times out of 10, it is very possible). there are a plethora of other options you can explore before getting on medication: natural supplements, changing your diet, exercising, journaling, etc.

i've seen clients from 15-70+ years old who are dependent on anti-anxiety/anti-depression medication who exhibit no real effort to make actual therapeutic progress, and instead stay wrapped up in this blanket of pharmaceuticals that tend to just numb and hollow you out.

i'm assuming you're fairly young, which is the best time to start tackling these issues. sometimes, these things go undiagnosed/untreated and end up resulting in addictions or other unhealthy habits to cope with uncomfortable feelings (like anxiety).

i applaud your self-awareness and respect your effort to reach out for help on these forums. however, just as the above poster stated, there is only so much that can be done over a computer screen.

I cannot agree more with this. I was perscribed fairly strong antidepressants to deal with MDD (Major Depressive Disorder), which fucked with me beyond belief. The side effects are awful, and psychiatrists are far too quick to throw perscriptions at the problem. For me, it was more about learning to stop lingering on the shitty things in life, even if it means some major changes in your day-to-day, and just do what makes you happy.

[quote=jodd]i'm going to assume with your aforementioned diagnoses that you have already seen a psychiatrist or another licensed mental health professional. did they recommend a course of action for you? i suspect it would include some individual therapy, which is crucial to get through these troubled times you're currently having.

working at a mental health/substance abuse treatment facility, i urge you to stay away from prescription medication if at all possible (and 9 times out of 10, it is very possible). there are a plethora of other options you can explore before getting on medication: natural supplements, changing your diet, exercising, journaling, etc.

i've seen clients from 15-70+ years old who are dependent on anti-anxiety/anti-depression medication who exhibit no real effort to make actual therapeutic progress, and instead stay wrapped up in this blanket of pharmaceuticals that tend to just numb and hollow you out.

i'm assuming you're fairly young, which is the best time to start tackling these issues. sometimes, these things go undiagnosed/untreated and end up resulting in addictions or other unhealthy habits to cope with uncomfortable feelings (like anxiety).

i applaud your self-awareness and respect your effort to reach out for help on these forums. however, just as the above poster stated, there is only so much that can be done over a computer screen.[/quote]
I cannot agree more with this. I was perscribed fairly strong antidepressants to deal with MDD (Major Depressive Disorder), which fucked with me beyond belief. The side effects are awful, and psychiatrists are far too quick to throw perscriptions at the problem. For me, it was more about learning to stop lingering on the shitty things in life, even if it means some major changes in your day-to-day, and just do what makes you happy.
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Platypusjoddi'm going to assume with your aforementioned diagnoses that you have already seen a psychiatrist or another licensed mental health professional. did they recommend a course of action for you? i suspect it would include some individual therapy, which is crucial to get through these troubled times you're currently having.

working at a mental health/substance abuse treatment facility, i urge you to stay away from prescription medication if at all possible (and 9 times out of 10, it is very possible). there are a plethora of other options you can explore before getting on medication: natural supplements, changing your diet, exercising, journaling, etc.

i've seen clients from 15-70+ years old who are dependent on anti-anxiety/anti-depression medication who exhibit no real effort to make actual therapeutic progress, and instead stay wrapped up in this blanket of pharmaceuticals that tend to just numb and hollow you out.

i'm assuming you're fairly young, which is the best time to start tackling these issues. sometimes, these things go undiagnosed/untreated and end up resulting in addictions or other unhealthy habits to cope with uncomfortable feelings (like anxiety).

i applaud your self-awareness and respect your effort to reach out for help on these forums. however, just as the above poster stated, there is only so much that can be done over a computer screen.
I cannot agree more with this. I was perscribed fairly strong antidepressants to deal with MDD (Major Depressive Disorder), which fucked with me beyond belief. The side effects are awful, and psychiatrists are far too quick to throw perscriptions at the problem. For me, it was more about learning to stop lingering on the shitty things in life, even if it means some major changes in your day-to-day, and just do what makes you happy.

If you can manage your depression without medication, you don't have a mental disorder

Antidepressants get a lot of shit due to side effects or not being able to aptly determine which one is right for you or if they'll even work(which is fair), but just because of that, doesn't mean they're not extremely helpful and necessary for a lot of people. It's the same thing with antipsychotics, most meds that help alleviate schizophrenia/dementia/mania/borderline disorders also completely zombify the person and make it difficult for them to really feel genuine emotions or function as a normal person, however I really doubt people would encourage mentally people to go off their antipsychotics, since the result would probably be them murdering someone or committing suicide.

[quote=Platypus][quote=jodd]i'm going to assume with your aforementioned diagnoses that you have already seen a psychiatrist or another licensed mental health professional. did they recommend a course of action for you? i suspect it would include some individual therapy, which is crucial to get through these troubled times you're currently having.

working at a mental health/substance abuse treatment facility, i urge you to stay away from prescription medication if at all possible (and 9 times out of 10, it is very possible). there are a plethora of other options you can explore before getting on medication: natural supplements, changing your diet, exercising, journaling, etc.

i've seen clients from 15-70+ years old who are dependent on anti-anxiety/anti-depression medication who exhibit no real effort to make actual therapeutic progress, and instead stay wrapped up in this blanket of pharmaceuticals that tend to just numb and hollow you out.

i'm assuming you're fairly young, which is the best time to start tackling these issues. sometimes, these things go undiagnosed/untreated and end up resulting in addictions or other unhealthy habits to cope with uncomfortable feelings (like anxiety).

i applaud your self-awareness and respect your effort to reach out for help on these forums. however, just as the above poster stated, there is only so much that can be done over a computer screen.[/quote]
I cannot agree more with this. I was perscribed fairly strong antidepressants to deal with MDD (Major Depressive Disorder), which fucked with me beyond belief. The side effects are awful, and psychiatrists are far too quick to throw perscriptions at the problem. For me, it was more about learning to stop lingering on the shitty things in life, even if it means some major changes in your day-to-day, and just do what makes you happy.[/quote]
If you can manage your depression without medication, you don't have a mental disorder

Antidepressants get a lot of shit due to side effects or not being able to aptly determine which one is right for you or if they'll even work(which is fair), but just because of that, doesn't mean they're not extremely helpful and necessary for a lot of people. It's the same thing with antipsychotics, most meds that help alleviate schizophrenia/dementia/mania/borderline disorders also completely zombify the person and make it difficult for them to really feel genuine emotions or function as a normal person, however I really doubt people would encourage mentally people to go off their antipsychotics, since the result would probably be them murdering someone or committing suicide.
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Khaki
If you can manage your depression without medication, you don't have a mental disorder

don't you think that's a pretty closed statement? it's been my experience that a lot of mental disorders - namely any variation of depression or anxiety - is usually more a matter of perception, lifestyle, and therapeutic inaction rather than an actual chemical imbalance, which is what medication (in this scenario, an anti-depressant) attempts to correct.

also, i'm not sure if comparing GAD/SAD to something like schizophrenia is relevant.

[quote=Khaki]

If you can manage your depression without medication, you don't have a mental disorder[/quote]

don't you think that's a pretty closed statement? it's been my experience that a lot of mental disorders - namely any variation of depression or anxiety - is usually more a matter of perception, lifestyle, and therapeutic inaction rather than an [i]actual[/i] chemical imbalance, which is what medication (in this scenario, an anti-depressant) attempts to correct.

also, i'm not sure if comparing GAD/SAD to something like schizophrenia is relevant.
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KhakiIf you can manage your depression without medication, you don't have a mental disorder

hyaha no shut the fuck up

[quote=Khaki]
If you can manage your depression without medication, you don't have a mental disorder

[/quote]

hyaha no shut the fuck up
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I guess you don't know how mental illness works, ok

I guess you don't know how mental illness works, ok
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KhakiI guess you don't know how mental illness works, ok

there are different levels of severity, ok

[quote=Khaki]I guess you don't know how mental illness works, ok[/quote]
there are different levels of severity, ok
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hey if i slam some nyquil tonight will i be fucked up for an extra hour?

hey if i slam some nyquil tonight will i be fucked up for an extra hour?
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http://i.imgur.com/KHYkcsy.jpg

[img]http://i.imgur.com/KHYkcsy.jpg[/img]
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Lights_KhakiI guess you don't know how mental illness works, okthere are different levels of severity, ok

when I say depression I'm talking about MDD, not those pussy, "oh i have dysphoria and get a little sad from time to time" problems

[quote=Lights_][quote=Khaki]I guess you don't know how mental illness works, ok[/quote]
there are different levels of severity, ok[/quote]
when I say depression I'm talking about MDD, not those pussy, "oh i have dysphoria and get a little sad from time to time" problems
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KhakiLights_KhakiI guess you don't know how mental illness works, okthere are different levels of severity, okwhen I say depression I'm talking about MDD, not those pussy, "oh i have dysphoria and get a little sad from time to time" problemsThe understanding of the nature and causes of depression has evolved over the centuries, though this understanding is incomplete and has left many aspects of depression as the subject of discussion and research. Proposed causes include psychological, psycho-social, hereditary, evolutionary and biological factors

I like looking at problems from a singular isolated viewpoint as well

[quote=Khaki][quote=Lights_][quote=Khaki]I guess you don't know how mental illness works, ok[/quote]
there are different levels of severity, ok[/quote]
when I say depression I'm talking about MDD, not those pussy, "oh i have dysphoria and get a little sad from time to time" problems[/quote]

[quote]The understanding of the nature and causes of depression has evolved over the centuries, though this understanding is incomplete and has left many aspects of depression as the subject of discussion and research. Proposed causes include psychological, psycho-social, hereditary, evolutionary and biological factors[/quote]

I like looking at problems from a singular isolated viewpoint as well
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when someone disrespects my pronouns in public it becomes hard to breath

when someone disrespects my pronouns in public it becomes hard to breath
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conductorThe understanding of the nature and causes of depression has evolved over the centuries, though this understanding is incomplete and has left many aspects of depression as the subject of discussion and research.

uh isn't this basically true about a lot of illnesses

[quote=conductor]
[quote]The understanding of the nature and causes of depression has evolved over the centuries, though this understanding is incomplete and has left many aspects of depression as the subject of discussion and research.[/quote][/quote]
uh isn't this basically true about a lot of illnesses
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KhakiLights_KhakiI guess you don't know how mental illness works, okthere are different levels of severity, okwhen I say depression I'm talking about MDD, not those pussy, "oh i have dysphoria and get a little sad from time to time" problems

Dude I just said I was diagnosed with MDD and was able to stop taking meds regularly

[quote=Khaki][quote=Lights_][quote=Khaki]I guess you don't know how mental illness works, ok[/quote]
there are different levels of severity, ok[/quote]
when I say depression I'm talking about MDD, not those pussy, "oh i have dysphoria and get a little sad from time to time" problems[/quote]
Dude I just said I was diagnosed with MDD and was able to stop taking meds regularly
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KhakiI guess you don't know how mental illness works, ok

I guess if you get a cold and you don't take medicines to stop it you don't really have a cold

[quote=Khaki]I guess you don't know how mental illness works, ok[/quote]
I guess if you get a cold and you don't take medicines to stop it you don't really have a cold
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phobiathe best thing to do is just not give a fuck about anything, i had social anxiety but i got over it because i don't really care what people say or think about me

that has to be some of the worst advice I've ever heard

[quote=phobia]the best thing to do is just not give a fuck about anything, i had social anxiety but i got over it because i don't really care what people say or think about me[/quote]
that has to be some of the worst advice I've ever heard
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alright, alright you got me, I got super trolled

alright, alright you got me, I got super trolled
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try working out i'm not really sure if this will help nor do i have any idea of how you're supposed to cope with this but I do know that working out will make u more confident and healthy so why not u know

try working out i'm not really sure if this will help nor do i have any idea of how you're supposed to cope with this but I do know that working out will make u more confident and healthy so why not u know
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conductorphobiai had social anxiety but i got over it because i don't really care what people say or think about me
that's not how it works

Then how did it work for me?????

[quote=conductor][quote=phobia]i had social anxiety but i got over it because i don't really care what people say or think about me[/quote]

that's not how it works[/quote]
Then how did it work for me?????
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phobiaconductorphobiai had social anxiety but i got over it because i don't really care what people say or think about me
that's not how it works
Then how did it work for me?????

you're probably confusing being shy with social anxiety disorder.

[quote=phobia][quote=conductor][quote=phobia]i had social anxiety but i got over it because i don't really care what people say or think about me[/quote]

that's not how it works[/quote]
Then how did it work for me?????[/quote]

you're probably confusing being shy with social anxiety disorder.
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