defiance, the amount of backpedaling you did from your previous post to that post to try to clarify the condescending, offensive things you said is truly staggering.
going from "grow up and deal with your decisions" to "he didn't really do anything wrong",
and from "one day you'll probably be really happy about this 'mistake'" to "being responsible about it doesn't mean keeping it and it doesn't even mean not having it aborted"
is basically admitting that you were a massive cunt in your first post.
also, as vortex said, your anecdote is laughable. try telling the millions of 16 year old single mothers stuck with jobs like being hookers that someone else in their situation made a million dollars, so gosh darn it they should be able to too!
also please don't put words in my mouth. I never said he should be depressed forever and drop out of school on purpose. I'm saying it's offensive and patronizing when you try to lecture someone stuck in a terrible, unfortunate situation that you have never been in by telling them that if they put a smile on everything will be 100% ok