the most toxic players are the people who internalize criticism and stop trying/talking therefore ruining the quality of the game for everyone on both teams
I would much rather have someone who rages than someone who shuts down
MioeBut cs has a much bigger community than tf2. Cs has actual incentives to keep dealing with assholes, all we have is like paying $100 to get into invite and probably not winning a prize pool, or like going to an iseries LAN and using the winnings to pay for the flight and hotel. We can't really afford to be as toxic as we are.
the way I see it, people in cs only seem like "assholes" because they care more about winning than their own insecurities, which money and fame incentivizes, whereas in tf2 taking things seriously doesn't gain you enough for it to be appealing to most people