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How to get over your "first love"
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There is this girl at my school who I have been in love with for a while now. I have known liked for 3 years, and the past few months I have really fallen in love with her. At the beginning of the school year, she said she liked me back but it wasn't near as much as I liked her. I got way too deep in my feelings, and she has moved on past hers. Now I am having a lot of regrets of the past asking myself why I didn't do this or do that, etc.
I feel like love is the strongest emotion. Is it possible to fully get over the person you love, not just for looks, but for who they truly are? Because I feel like I may never see her the same way again, I have taken space as much up to a month to stop talking to her, but it only neutralizes my feelings for a short period of time until they come back again.

There is this girl at my school who I have been in love with for a while now. I have known liked for 3 years, and the past few months I have really fallen in love with her. At the beginning of the school year, she said she liked me back but it wasn't near as much as I liked her. I got way too deep in my feelings, and she has moved on past hers. Now I am having a lot of regrets of the past asking myself why I didn't do this or do that, etc.
I feel like love is the strongest emotion. Is it possible to fully get over the person you love, not just for looks, but for who they truly are? Because I feel like I may never see her the same way again, I have taken space as much up to a month to stop talking to her, but it only neutralizes my feelings for a short period of time until they come back again.
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#2
165 Frags +

mge her

mge her
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#3
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Start working out. find a new bitch and move on with your life. there are too many girls out there to be fixated on one.

Start working out. find a new bitch and move on with your life. there are too many girls out there to be fixated on one.
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#4
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As hard as it might be, you just gotta focus entirely on improving your own endeavors and keeping up with them. Keep at your studies, and keep working out if you do, or if you don't start working out. Try to set yourself up for success for the rest of high school or prepping yourself for college a bit if you're a senior. Shit's rough but you just gotta do you and not worry about anything else for the time being.

As hard as it might be, you just gotta focus entirely on improving your own endeavors and keeping up with them. Keep at your studies, and keep working out if you do, or if you don't start working out. Try to set yourself up for success for the rest of high school or prepping yourself for college a bit if you're a senior. Shit's rough but you just gotta do you and not worry about anything else for the time being.
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#5
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youre litearlly in high school there are other fish in the sea as soon as you go to college

youre litearlly in high school there are other fish in the sea as soon as you go to college
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#6
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kill her in her sleep then find a new girl

kill her in her sleep then find a new girl
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#7
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Just tell yourself she isn't as good at bball as you and has no place in your life

Just tell yourself she isn't as good at bball as you and has no place in your life
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#8
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kick her out of your registered bball team

kick her out of your registered bball team
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#9
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stultus v2

stultus v2
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#10
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time

time
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#11
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xd

xd
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#12
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TELL HER YOU LOVE HER

TELL HER YOU LOVE HER
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#13
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Really dedicate yourself to a hobby or learning a new skill. If you keep busy and engaged even in your time outside work/school it means you don't have time to mope over some girl.

Really dedicate yourself to a hobby or learning a new skill. If you keep busy and engaged even in your time outside work/school it means you don't have time to mope over some girl.
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#14
-6 Frags +

pretty sure you are too young to know what love means, you just think this way because its your first

pretty sure you are too young to know what love means, you just think this way because its your first
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#15
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just gotta move on

find another girl and fuck the shit out of her

just gotta move on

find another girl and fuck the shit out of her
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#16
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if yung jdawg dont trust u im gona shoot u

if yung jdawg dont trust u im gona shoot u
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#17
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this teenage melodrama....get over it by growing up and realizing how dumb it is.

this teenage melodrama....get over it by growing up and realizing how dumb it is.
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#18
31 Frags +

Beat off until you can't beat off anymore

Beat off until you can't beat off anymore
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#19
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accept the fact that she doesn't love you back and move on
just don't become resentful because she doesn't love you or feel like "im a nice guy why wont she suck my dick". in other words, dont become elliot rodgers and you're golden

accept the fact that she doesn't love you back and move on
just don't become resentful because she doesn't love you or feel like "im a nice guy why wont she suck my dick". in other words, dont become elliot rodgers and you're golden
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#20
6 Frags +

show up outside her window with a boombox in the middle of the night and play her favorite song

show up outside her window with a boombox in the middle of the night and play her favorite song
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#21
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http://i.imgur.com/WNY3wAl.png

[img]http://i.imgur.com/WNY3wAl.png[/img]
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#22
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remember its first love not last love

remember its first love not last love
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#23
4 Frags +

delete the program

delete the program
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#24
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iFY_Start working out. find a new bitch and move on with your life. there are too many girls out there to be fixated on one.

if you knew jdawg u should know he benches hella ton
he also does the weed

[quote=iFY_]Start working out. find a new bitch and move on with your life. there are too many girls out there to be fixated on one.[/quote]
if you knew jdawg u should know he benches hella ton
[s]he also does the weed[/s]
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#25
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Meet somebody else, share some love to somebody who cares for it. I'm sure there's someone out there who is as hearth-broken as you are, and wants to feel loved too. Just don't be afraid to express yourself whenever the time comes.

Meet somebody else, share some love to somebody who cares for it. I'm sure there's someone out there who is as hearth-broken as you are, and wants to feel loved too. Just don't be afraid to express yourself whenever the time comes.
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#26
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it takes time also you sound really creepy come down to earth a lil bit and try to imagine what it seems like from her perspective

it takes time also you sound really creepy come down to earth a lil bit and try to imagine what it seems like from her perspective
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#27
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ExileJust tell yourself she isn't as good at bball as you and has no place in your life

http://puu.sh/noX9a/fbe0f6db4a.jpg

[quote=Exile]Just tell yourself she isn't as good at bball as you and has no place in your life[/quote]
http://puu.sh/noX9a/fbe0f6db4a.jpg
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#28
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It ain't really love if it only goes one way my friend

Wikipedia yielded this quote, "Some say that one-sided love is better than none, but like half a loaf of bread, it is likely to grow hard and moldy sooner."

Which strikes me as a poor analogy

So I'll repeat tetronimo's quote which is to remember it's first love not last love. Some day you'll be in a happy loving relationship with somebody who loves you back, and you'll understand. But for now, try to take our word for it.

It ain't really love if it only goes one way my friend

Wikipedia yielded this quote, "Some say that one-sided love is better than none, but like half a loaf of bread, it is likely to grow hard and moldy sooner."

Which strikes me as a poor analogy

So I'll repeat tetronimo's quote which is to remember it's first love not last love. Some day you'll be in a happy loving relationship with somebody who loves you back, and you'll understand. But for now, try to take our word for it.
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#29
33 Frags +

If I like a girl but I don't want to like her for whatever reason then I always just imagine them pooping as often as I can and then eventually whenever you see them it conjures the mental image of them squeezing out a massive one after a night of eating kebabs and drinking guinness and you are just instantly disgusted by them. 10/10 works every time

If I like a girl but I don't want to like her for whatever reason then I always just imagine them pooping as often as I can and then eventually whenever you see them it conjures the mental image of them squeezing out a massive one after a night of eating kebabs and drinking guinness and you are just instantly disgusted by them. 10/10 works every time
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#30
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=afuqiEaysIA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=afuqiEaysIA
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