FuxxThat's precisely why we need to respect and support anyone who comes out to their fullest extent and give a good old asskicking to anyone who doesn't.
Fuxxprevious victims included, is partially responsible for any abuses that follow.
FuxxI am not blaming any victim, nor was it ever my intention.
I'm not sure if this is imprecise of use of language but it certainly reads as if you are blaming victims.
FuxxDo you agree with me on this?
I think your overall argument is reductive and removes humanity from the equation, there are numerous and valid reasons that a victim would not want to reveal the name of their attacker/abuser including, but not limited to- shame, fear of consequences, lack of confidence and a lack of information (due to intoxication). Treating these partial disclosures as a problem to be solved isn't what the community needs; All disclosures should be encouraged and supported.