Hallowi dont get the frustration, dad bods are attractive to me as well, being fit just comes with a boring ass lifestyle
That's a pretty sweeping generalization to make. You can be responsible about your diet, be healthy, and still have pizza/alcohol/junk pretty often. Additionally it really depends on what you consider a "boring ass lifestyle". I have climber friends who are jacked and they travel north America mountain climbing, backpacking, and camping. being in shape does not require you to be a gym rat who eats nothing but reheated chicken and broccoli. I would say your statement is true for people on both extremes, those who obsess over every calorie or missed workout and those who are so unfit they can't enjoy normal activities.