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Giving a girl my phone number
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#1
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The girl I like broke up with her boyfriend last weekend and I've been trying all week to get her to give me her phone number. I've hinted that my internet is down so we can't talk on Skype, and also once after I explained something to her in calc I said that it's easier to explain something orally than it is to type it. She didn't respond either time how I wanted her to, which was by saying something like "oh ok well here's my number".

So I've been thinking about giving her my phone number first, but I have some questions. First, is there any disadvantage to giving a girl my phone number rather than her offering me hers first? And second, what excuse could I give her for giving her my number?

The girl I like broke up with her boyfriend last weekend and I've been trying all week to get her to give me her phone number. I've hinted that my internet is down so we can't talk on Skype, and also once after I explained something to her in calc I said that it's easier to explain something orally than it is to type it. She didn't respond either time how I wanted her to, which was by saying something like "oh ok well here's my number".

So I've been thinking about giving her my phone number first, but I have some questions. First, is there any disadvantage to giving a girl my phone number rather than her offering me hers first? And second, what excuse could I give her for giving her my number?
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#2
11 Frags +

you posted this with
'wrong forum, could an admin move this'
from the start

ugh

you posted this with
'wrong forum, could an admin move this'
from the start

ugh
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#3
7 Frags +

i dont think giving her your number is necessarily bad in this case, i mean just give her and and tell her to call you for help dont give it to her and then say "pls respond i am wait"

i can never tell if these are serious or not fuck me

i dont think giving her your number is necessarily bad in this case, i mean just give her and and tell her to call you for help dont give it to her and then say "pls respond i am wait"


i can never tell if these are serious or not fuck me
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#4
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Fox, I edited it in.

Fox, I edited it in.
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#5
13 Frags +

you're a lying hurt machine

you're a lying hurt machine
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#6
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It could make you seem a little desperate I suppose. But I've had plenty of guys give me their number first (interested or not) and I've never thought it was a big deal. It's just her number honestly, it's not like you're taking her out on a date.

Really though, maybe you should try e-dating?

It could make you seem a little desperate I suppose. But I've had plenty of guys give me their number first (interested or not) and I've never thought it was a big deal. It's just her number honestly, it's not like you're taking her out on a date.

Really though, maybe you should try e-dating?
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#7
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i laughed when i read this ;-;

i laughed when i read this ;-;
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#8
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Foxyou posted this with
'wrong forum, could an admin move this'
from the start

ugh

we are being 4channed the whole time :(

[quote=Fox]you posted this with
'wrong forum, could an admin move this'
from the start

ugh[/quote]


we are being 4channed the whole time :(
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#9
6 Frags +

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ncq1X8em4tM&feature=player_detailpage#t=32s

play dis fer her

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ncq1X8em4tM&feature=player_detailpage#t=32s

play dis fer her
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#10
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I wish guys would give me their number first :(

I wish guys would give me their number first :(
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#11
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so your goal in getting her number is to what...text her? Seems you already skype with her, which is like talking on the phone...so yeah. What do you think you're going to accomplish that you aren't accomplishing over skype :)

so your goal in getting her number is to what...text her? Seems you already skype with her, which is like talking on the phone...so yeah. What do you think you're going to accomplish that you aren't accomplishing over skype :)
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#12
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dabeshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ncq1X8em4tM&feature=player_detailpage#t=32s

play dis fer her

Win, lot's a win here. Although, if this doesn't work out, you could always try this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=31xeI-evC9M

[quote=dabes]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ncq1X8em4tM&feature=player_detailpage#t=32s

play dis fer her[/quote]

Win, lot's a win here. Although, if this doesn't work out, you could always try this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=31xeI-evC9M
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#13
2 Frags +

Oh, this is a simple one. Find out what you two share in common (movies, food, video games, whatever), and just come up to her and ask her if she's down to chill with you for a bit. Just have a relaxed pose and light tone of voice, and do it as a friend.

This will clue her off that you're not just trying to rip her pants apart - and if she has a friendly stance towards you she'll cough up her number. From there, you can start to hang out with her and see if you've really got the true hots for this girl in question.

I don't see the disadvantage of doing it either way - if you ask for hers first and she turns you down you at least won't be wasting your time, right?

Oh, this is a simple one. Find out what you two share in common (movies, food, video games, whatever), and just come up to her and ask her if she's down to chill with you for a bit. Just have a relaxed pose and light tone of voice, and do it as a friend.

This will clue her off that you're not just trying to rip her pants apart - and if she has a friendly stance towards you she'll cough up her number. From there, you can start to hang out with her and see if you've really got the true hots for this girl in question.

I don't see the disadvantage of doing it either way - if you ask for hers first and she turns you down you at least won't be wasting your time, right?
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#14
12 Frags +
clorgI wish guys would give me their number first :(

just be really slutty

[quote=clorg]I wish guys would give me their number first :([/quote]
just be really slutty
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#15
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L-blockclorgI wish guys would give me their number first :(just be really slutty

ew thats gross clorg is a 14 year old boy

[quote=L-block][quote=clorg]I wish guys would give me their number first :([/quote]
just be really slutty[/quote]


ew thats gross clorg is a 14 year old boy
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#16
-7 Frags +

dude you're the fucking cutest asian person i've ever seen EVER fucking just ask her what her number is.

dude you're the fucking cutest asian person i've ever seen EVER fucking just ask her what her number is.
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#17
11 Frags +

"give her the dick" - wise words from lange

"give her the dick" - wise words from lange
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#18
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Isn't a week a little too quick of a turnaround? I mean, if you go for it this quickly, you'll likely either get used as a rebound, or friend zoned.

Isn't a week a little too quick of a turnaround? I mean, if you go for it this quickly, you'll likely either get used as a rebound, or friend zoned.
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#19
6 Frags +

If you give her your number you can easily get hers. In most situations, you don't even need to ask:

"We should grab coffee/dinner/a movie together. My number is [number]; tell me your number so we can set up a time later."

Note that there's no question mark in this sentence. Say it confidently, and not hurriedly. And take out your phone and look ready to enter her number as you say it. If she has a problem with giving out her number, she'll tell you. Rejection in real life is far less dramatic than rejection in movies, as direct confrontation generally isn't feminine behavior. Then, once you have a number, don't ask when she's free -- simply propose something a few days later:

"Let's grab dinner at [place] at [time]."

If she has a problem with that place or time, she'll let you know. But you need to remember that typically women are not the aggressors in relationships -- it's on you. You have to make the first moves.

If you give her your number you can easily get hers. In most situations, you don't even need to ask:

"We should grab coffee/dinner/a movie together. My number is [number]; tell me your number so we can set up a time later."

Note that there's no question mark in this sentence. Say it confidently, and not hurriedly. And take out your phone and look ready to enter her number as you say it. If she has a problem with giving out her number, she'll tell you. Rejection in real life is far less dramatic than rejection in movies, as direct confrontation generally isn't feminine behavior. Then, once you have a number, don't ask when she's free -- simply propose something a few days later:

"Let's grab dinner at [place] at [time]."

If she has a problem with that place or time, she'll let you know. But you need to remember that typically women are not the aggressors in relationships -- it's on you. You have to make the first moves.
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#20
6 Frags +

Next time you see her tell her you want to have sex. Then get her number.

Next time you see her tell her you want to have sex. Then get her number.
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#21
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That's the problem. I am very confident and can even temporarily boost my confidence when I need to. But the problem is that I don't have a real reason to exchange numbers. The best one I can think of is more trig help but I think that's overpushing it.

That's the problem. I am very confident and can even temporarily boost my confidence when I need to. But the problem is that I don't have a real reason to exchange numbers. The best one I can think of is more trig help but I think that's overpushing it.
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#22
6 Frags +

burn it into her lawn with gasoline

that'll show her you love her

burn it into her lawn with gasoline

that'll show her you love her
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#23
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clorgI wish guys would give me their number first :(

my number is 666-420-6969 if u catch my drif bb ;)

[quote=clorg]I wish guys would give me their number first :([/quote]

my number is 666-420-6969 if u catch my drif bb ;)
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#24
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My favorite part of these posts is how seriously they are taken.

My favorite part of these posts is how seriously they are taken.
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#25
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Theres 2 things you can do, either play it hard to get, being; dont talk to her for like a week and hopefully she'll kind of wonder why your not talking to her that much, but this will only usually work if your good friends with the person and not just aquantinces. OR you can just ask her out. The worst thing that can happen is you get rejected which is honestly not that bad, but on the flipside, it might actually work :) Hope this helps

Theres 2 things you can do, either play it hard to get, being; dont talk to her for like a week and hopefully she'll kind of wonder why your not talking to her that much, but this will only usually work if your good friends with the person and not just aquantinces. OR you can just ask her out. The worst thing that can happen is you get rejected which is honestly not that bad, but on the flipside, it might actually work :) Hope this helps
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#26
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I said that it's easier to explain something orally than it is to type it.

That could be taken a different way.

I said that it's easier to explain something orally than it is to type it.

That could be taken a different way.
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#27
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stultusThat's the problem. I am very confident and can even temporarily boost my confidence when I need to. But the problem is that I don't have a real reason to exchange numbers. The best one I can think of is more trig help but I think that's overpushing it.

how do you temporarily boost your confidence

[quote=stultus]That's the problem. I am very confident and can even temporarily boost my confidence when I need to. But the problem is that I don't have a real reason to exchange numbers. The best one I can think of is more trig help but I think that's overpushing it.[/quote]

how do you temporarily boost your confidence
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#28
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you just gotta be chill about it, you made your move now its up to her to act on it so its alright to just give it to her (in more ways than one). when you act like you really don't give a fuck she'll wonder why you haven't gone out of your way to get in touch with her...its pretty much up in the air at that point and you don't come off as desperate or annoying which is good. and that usually is a good way to start it off just sayin something like hit me up if you wanna get some coffee or grab a drink some time. its chill and girls like that. don't over think it either.

you just gotta be chill about it, you made your move now its up to her to act on it so its alright to just give it to her (in more ways than one). when you act like you really don't give a fuck she'll wonder why you haven't gone out of your way to get in touch with her...its pretty much up in the air at that point and you don't come off as desperate or annoying which is good. and that usually is a good way to start it off just sayin something like hit me up if you wanna get some coffee or grab a drink some time. its chill and girls like that. don't over think it either.
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#29
2 Frags +

Just stay the way you are.
She likes you, You have contact with her and everything...
that's already better than me with any girls :D.
Seriously though, you could just give her your phonenumber and say "Here's my phonenumber if you ever need help since my internet isn't the best".
or something like that.
I dont really have experience in that sort of cases..
But i think that's probably a good thing to do.
Hope i kinda helped ;3

Just stay the way you are.
She likes you, You have contact with her and everything...
that's already better than me with any girls :D.
Seriously though, you could just give her your phonenumber and say "Here's my phonenumber if you ever need help since my internet isn't the best".
or something like that.
I dont really have experience in that sort of cases..
But i think that's probably a good thing to do.
Hope i kinda helped ;3
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#30
0 Frags +

talk to her about common topics then be like "btw heres my number" but act chill about it and dont be desperate.

talk to her about common topics then be like "btw heres my number" but act chill about it and dont be desperate.
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