ReflectoI won't share the chatlog unless you are comfortable with that. But this part needs to be addressed
Advancement does not need to be of a sexual nature in a relationship. I know that is what is implied, but I am inclined to believe that my good friend of over 4 years is indeed, a good person (and I know him to be a good person as well). In addition, considering that the girl in question is stating that nothing sexual was done, I am leaning towards this inclination. However, I suppose nothing is set in stone until someone directly involved makes a statement.
JaguarFiendIdk man this redacted evidence is pretty damning. 19 and 16? Seems to me like he's a Full Blown PeDoPhiLe!!!! I mean this is obviously a binary conundrum. 1 or 0. You're either a pedo or you're not and this is clearly a yes. Think of the victims. Everyone please call the FBI asap! Don't wait up!It would be nice if the tf2 community could keep logically consistent and seeing as they've already destroyed another person's life over a similar scenario, I don't know why we'd start giving out free passes.
This situation and the Nursey/broking situation are completely different, and I would like to say that midas should in no way be grouped in with those two. I agree that child grooming and partaking in (especially unwanted) sexual activity with minors is just sick and the people who participate in this should be banned.
dbk16 and 19 is legal in most scenarios, not saying i think its a good idea in any way, but maybe chillax
It might be weird, but it is legal. Romeo and Juliet laws exist and would protect them if they did anything. From what has been posted here, it seems like nothing has happened.
I have known midas for a long time and am good friends with him, so I might be biased in my posting. However, I know that he would never have some sort of sick child fetish or partake in child grooming, and I personally think he's a good guy with good intentions, but just made the mistake of doing questionable things.
i know she has a lot of trust issues
shes definitely a lot more stable than she was before
and i wanted to hold off until she was at least 17 to tell anyone, since thats the legal age in my state
He clearly knows it's illegal wherever he lives.
It's illegal to engage in sexual behavior in his state (and actually, if they did something when she was 16 and he was 19, it would be fine under the law due to Romeo and Juliet laws), and I think that if he had told people he was in a relationship, people would assume that he is also doing this.