just tank the ban and try to grow as a person,

does not really matter what you thought you did etc, the point is you made someone very uncomfortable with your behaviour and thats it.

dropping 60 pages of explanations name dropping everyone and posting screenshots of private conversations does not plead your case. I read this thread and i see someone that is sorry about the consequences but not the actions.

acknoledge, apologise, move on, is all that you can and should do