I would like to argue that within the bounds of 'acceptable punishment' perhaps what some people did to Nursey (not the ban - definitely well-deserved) was probably not nessecarily 'life ruining', she just got banned from Team Fortress 2, not as if her life is over. TFTV is currently in witch-hunt mode to publicly execute anyone who has been accused in the past of questionable behavior, it isn't as though the facts and reactions of everyone are going to be consistent from case to case. It isn't like TFTV is one person with one single opinion on the entire subject. It is easily correct that nobody likes pedophiles but to say Midas engaged in the same type of behavior as Slamberg & Nursey is just...wrong, and you only need the facts to come to a similar conclusion. There is a clear, legally-defined difference between the type of pedophilic grooming and manipulation that the former 2 engaged in and what Midas was a part of. Midas has never been shown publicly to have manipulated Kaz. Both Kaz and Midas were in a consensual relationship.
The truth is is that Midas made a mistake to have engaged in questionable behavior in the first place, but it is certainly not fair to label him as a pedophile or to imply that he manipulated Kaz in the slightest into doing anything.