SheepylolphAZEthere are an infinite number of online resources such as youtube and google for questions like these (aka asking a girl out)
and you chose a competitive team fortress 2 video game forum?
cause I have friends here who can message me on steam.
1) you have friends you met over a video game who you trust to give relationship advice
2) you post on a forum they visit to contact them instead of messaging them
3) you post a thread asking "how do i say 'want to go to a concert with me?'"