since most ppl seem ready to take the story at face value, here's some (publicly disclosed) backstory
RoL had directly and explicitly threatened some members of the community who would be attending the LAN in question. She had specifically told them she would show up at the LAN and assault them. After things cooled off overnight, the explanation she gave was that these were not genuine intentions, but that smoking weed makes her act aggressively and she had been high when she posted the threats. The organizers for the LAN got in touch and very graciously told her that due to this, she was still welcome at the LAN, but not if she was going to smoke weed
This is where things spiraled into accusations of ableism, then threats of legal action, and now, for the past 6 months or so, threats of violence or self-harm. Her behavior went on to get her banned from various other community platforms which has continued the spiral to where we are today