segamw#17
as somebody who highly values this principle of thinking myself, i do agree with the essence of what you're trying to say but not every aspect of your life has to be optimized or constantly improved. some activities are simply meant for leisure, socialization, or just general community and camaraderie.
there's also an element to reading the room as far as pugs are concerned. if not everybody in the pug is feeling like putting 100% gas in, it's more of a social faux pas on you to be upset that they don't wanna tryhard when you're in the minority.
i spend a lot of time reviewing my own vods and constantly working on improving in league of legends because its something i'm passionate about and generally 90% of the teammates i get in ranked are similarly invested in winning the game (maybe not so much the improvement process, but winning at the very least)
but in pugs, many people are not playing for that experience. they're simply trying to enjoy the format of tf2 that's the most fun for them because pugs are the only realistic avenue to enjoy it at a regular interval