oyeaThe reason this scene is toxic is cause its filled with edgy children that spend all of their free time playing video games and as a result havent yet learned to behave like normal human beings.
This. It's not that people suffer and deal with it in exactly the same way in every area of life, a lot of the people who play the game do it to put themselves above others as a personal escape, to compensate for the need to develop themselves in a more conscious or self-aware way. Being able to tolerate toxicity has nothing to do with it, if you can tolerate constant negativity and neurosis from other people but also choose to involve yourself in something more healthy, why would you want to associate with or allow that crowd to rub off on you? There's a big difference between tolerance and allowing particular communities to define your well-being in a long-term sense, it's healthy to have different standards and important to realize that there are ways to grow outside of these communities