LulzyI’ve got full-blown autism and I’m gay. Ain’t no way in hell I’m about to stop using these words just because some dude who isn’t is asking me nicely.
There is a really big gap between what you can say and what you should say in an ideal world. I am a slur enjoyer and don't claim not to be it just really gets to me when people hide behind identity as if they have a pass. The big example of this is when gay people use faggot super derogatorily, like let's not pretend that it doesn't cause harm just cause you are gay. If you are gonna grandstand about slurs and only use ones that you "have the pass" in a derogatory manner just know that it comes off super hypocritical when you police the language of others.